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Monogamy vs. Polyamory
Is Monogamy Still the Default? Hayley Folk on Redefining Love, Trust and Commitment For generations, monogamy has been seen as the natural foundation of love and partnership. From fairy tales to wedding vows, society has long celebrated the idea of finding one person to share a lifetime with. Yet as the world around us changes,… -
More Than Sex Ed: Lea Holzfurtner on Pleasure, Language, and the Art of Meeting Yourself
Lea Holzfurtner is a psychological counselor, certified sex coach, and one of the voices reshaping how we think about sexuality. Direct, informed, and refreshingly shame-free. On Instagram, she shares knowledge with ease, humor, and conviction. It’s never just about sex, but always about language, self-image, and relationships. In her work, she supports people who want… -
Behind the Subscription: A Conversation with Michael & Tim Overdick on Closeness, Visibility and OnlyFans
What is OnlyFans, really? Between Social Media and Paywall Few platforms have stirred as much debate in recent years as OnlyFans. In the headlines it is often reduced to nudity and fast money, but the reality goes deeper: it represents an entirely new form of digital intimacy. Where Instagram runs on algorithms and TikTok on… -
On All Fours: Pup Uzuma on Pupplay, Community and Freedom in the Headspace
On all fours, sometimes playful, sometimes curious, and sometimes serious: Pupplay is a form of expression that may seem unusual at first glance, yet for many it is a natural part of queer life. Between closeness, freedom, ritual, and a strong sense of community unfolds a scene that is as diverse as it is fascinating.… -
Love Without Borders? Where Queerness Is (Not) Accepted Around the World
Not everywhere in the world can LGBTQIA+ people live openly, love freely, and be their authentic selves. While in many countries legal equality, Pride events, and LGBTQ-friendly societies are part of everyday life, others are still marked by discrimination, invisibility, or even persecution. According to the Gay Travel Index 2025 by Spartacus, Canada, Malta, Portugal,… -
Why Cologne Pride 2025 Felt Different
Hi, I’m Andi, and this year I had the chance to experience Cologne Pride 2025 in person. Maybe you were there too, or maybe not. Either way, you should definitely keep reading, because this year’s Pride Parade in Cologne was not just colorful, loud, and crowded as always. It felt different. There was more politics,… -
Transgender – The Journey to Your True Self
Defining gender based solely on external physical characteristics no longer reflects today’s standards. Gender and the identity that comes with it are, above all, what each individual feels and makes of it. This becomes especially important when a person’s outward appearance doesn’t align with how they truly see and feel about themselves. That disconnect often… -
30 Years of Change in Sexuality, Self-Love and Education
Not only has pjur evolved over the past 30 years, but so have the topics of sexuality, self-love, and education. We are all approaching these aspects of love more openly than ever before, paying better attention to ourselves, and there is a much greater acceptance of diverse expressions of sexuality. Information on these topics is… -
Asexuality – Everything You Need to Know
Asexuality is a sexual orientation that you may identify with if you experience no sexual attraction to people of the same or opposite sex. In fact, asexual people don’t usually have any desire to engage in sexual activity at all. In this article, we’ll take a closer look at the full spectrum of asexuality and… -
The Magic of Drag: Glamour, Self-Expression and Culture
Nowadays, we’ve all heard the word “drag” or the phrase “drag queen”. They might even bring to mind a celebrity. “Drag” simply means that a person performs in female clothes and with exaggerated drag queen makeup. Today, queens are often seen as a voice for the entire LGBTQIA+ community. In fact, they attention they receive… -
The LGBTQIA+ activists you need to know about – and why
Over the years, the LGBTQIA+ movement has produced some incredible activists who campaign tirelessly for equality, acceptance and the rights of their community. The courage, commitment and unwavering dedication of these activists has made a significant contribution to improving the lives of LGBTQIA+ people around the world. In this post, we introduce you to some… -
Voyeurism – The thrill of watching others
Voyeurism is the desire to observe, or the sexual gratification of watching naked people or people engaging in sexual acts. Voyeurs become sexually aroused watching other people, and get a particular thrill out of it. Read on to find out what voyeurism means and why so many people are attracted to watching nakedness or sexual…