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Premature Ejaculation – How to Last Longer During Sex
Being able to maintain an erection for long enough during sex is an important concern for lots of men, and regularly climaxing too soon can create sexual hang-ups that affect the whole relationship. Premature ejaculation is actually very common, and there are a number of things you can do to prevent it and increase your… -
How to Get Yourself in the Mood for Great Sex in 2025
We all know how it goes with new year’s resolutions: When January 1 rolls around, we always vow to exercise more, eat better, or make more time for ourselves. But how many of these resolutions do we actually stick to? Most of the promises we make to ourselves are broken within the first few weeks…
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Porn Use: An Honest Look Behind the Screens with Ben from jungsfragen.de
How Porn Shapes Our Daily Lives and Why So Many Questions Go Unanswered Pornography is as readily available today as music or news. It appears on the phones of teens and young adults early on, often long before they ever have real conversations about sexuality. At the same time, it remains one of the topics... -
Monogamy vs. Polyamory
Is Monogamy Still the Default? Hayley Folk on Redefining Love, Trust and Commitment For generations, monogamy has been seen as the natural foundation of love and partnership. From fairy tales to wedding vows, society has long celebrated the idea of finding one person to share a lifetime with. Yet as the world around us changes,... -
More Than Sex Ed: Lea Holzfurtner on Pleasure, Language, and the Art of Meeting Yourself
Lea Holzfurtner is a psychological counselor, certified sex coach, and one of the voices reshaping how we think about sexuality. Direct, informed, and refreshingly shame-free. On Instagram, she shares knowledge with ease, humor, and conviction. It’s never just about sex, but always about language, self-image, and relationships. In her work, she supports people who want... -
Behind the Subscription: A Conversation with Michael & Tim Overdick on Closeness, Visibility and OnlyFans
What is OnlyFans, really? Between Social Media and Paywall Few platforms have stirred as much debate in recent years as OnlyFans. In the headlines it is often reduced to nudity and fast money, but the reality goes deeper: it represents an entirely new form of digital intimacy. Where Instagram runs on algorithms and TikTok on... -
On All Fours: Pup Uzuma on Pupplay, Community and Freedom in the Headspace
On all fours, sometimes playful, sometimes curious, and sometimes serious: Pupplay is a form of expression that may seem unusual at first glance, yet for many it is a natural part of queer life. Between closeness, freedom, ritual, and a strong sense of community unfolds a scene that is as diverse as it is fascinating.... -
What Kinky Parties Are Really About: Nico, the Kinky Guide on Safe Spaces, Scene Culture, and the Kinky Guide
Who Is Nico, the Kinky Guide? Nico is the founder of the Kinky Guide and the Kinky Guide Awards, two initiatives aimed at making the kinky community more visible, safer, and more diverse. As an active member of the scene, Nico not only knows the events but also understands the needs, questions, and challenges faced... -
My First Time with Anal Sex: A Rollercoaster of Curiosity, Fear and Intense Pleasure
“Will it hurt?” That question kept running through my head for weeks. My name is Lisa, and in this personal story I take you along on my journey from the very first thought, through my fears and preparations, to the moments after. I share openly about my worries, the conversations with my partner and of... -
Love Without Borders? Where Queerness Is (Not) Accepted Around the World
Not everywhere in the world can LGBTQIA+ people live openly, love freely, and be their authentic selves. While in many countries legal equality, Pride events, and LGBTQ-friendly societies are part of everyday life, others are still marked by discrimination, invisibility, or even persecution. According to the Gay Travel Index 2025 by Spartacus, Canada, Malta, Portugal,... -
Why Cologne Pride 2025 Felt Different
Hi, I’m Andi, and this year I had the chance to experience Cologne Pride 2025 in person. Maybe you were there too, or maybe not. Either way, you should definitely keep reading, because this year’s Pride Parade in Cologne was not just colorful, loud, and crowded as always. It felt different. There was more politics,... -
Tinder Killed Dating – and No One Noticed
Maybe you’ve noticed it yourself: Modern dating on apps like Tinder doesn’t feel like truly getting to know someone anymore. Instead, it’s more and more about endless swiping. Quickly to the right if you’re interested, quickly to the left if you’re not. This behavior even has its own name: doomswiping. But what exactly is behind... -
Everyday Sexism Still Exists – Even in 2025
“That’s not for women.” Or “Real men don’t cry!” These statements might sound familiar. They can come across as harmless, casual, or even funny. But in truth, they’re examples of everyday sexism. What they have in common: they reinforce outdated gender roles, belittle certain groups, and support ways of thinking we were supposed to have... -
Transgender – The Journey to Your True Self
Defining gender based solely on external physical characteristics no longer reflects today’s standards. Gender and the identity that comes with it are, above all, what each individual feels and makes of it. This becomes especially important when a person’s outward appearance doesn’t align with how they truly see and feel about themselves. That disconnect often...