Sexpositivity
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Monogamy vs. Polyamory
Is Monogamy Still the Default? Hayley Folk on Redefining Love, Trust and Commitment For generations, monogamy has been seen as the natural foundation of love and partnership. From fairy tales to wedding vows, society has long celebrated the idea of finding one person to share a lifetime with. Yet as the world around us changes,… -
More Than Sex Ed: Lea Holzfurtner on Pleasure, Language, and the Art of Meeting Yourself
Lea Holzfurtner is a psychological counselor, certified sex coach, and one of the voices reshaping how we think about sexuality. Direct, informed, and refreshingly shame-free. On Instagram, she shares knowledge with ease, humor, and conviction. It’s never just about sex, but always about language, self-image, and relationships. In her work, she supports people who want… -
Behind the Subscription: A Conversation with Michael & Tim Overdick on Closeness, Visibility and OnlyFans
What is OnlyFans, really? Between Social Media and Paywall Few platforms have stirred as much debate in recent years as OnlyFans. In the headlines it is often reduced to nudity and fast money, but the reality goes deeper: it represents an entirely new form of digital intimacy. Where Instagram runs on algorithms and TikTok on… -
Everyday Sexism Still Exists – Even in 2025
“That’s not for women.” Or “Real men don’t cry!” These statements might sound familiar. They can come across as harmless, casual, or even funny. But in truth, they’re examples of everyday sexism. What they have in common: they reinforce outdated gender roles, belittle certain groups, and support ways of thinking we were supposed to have… -
Transgender – The Journey to Your True Self
Defining gender based solely on external physical characteristics no longer reflects today’s standards. Gender and the identity that comes with it are, above all, what each individual feels and makes of it. This becomes especially important when a person’s outward appearance doesn’t align with how they truly see and feel about themselves. That disconnect often… -
30 Years of Change in Sexuality, Self-Love and Education
Not only has pjur evolved over the past 30 years, but so have the topics of sexuality, self-love, and education. We are all approaching these aspects of love more openly than ever before, paying better attention to ourselves, and there is a much greater acceptance of diverse expressions of sexuality. Information on these topics is… -
Boost Your Desire with Self-Love: The Route to a More Sensual Life
Loving yourself is not always seen as a positive character trait. But self-love is important—it means accepting ourselves as we are and not constantly being plagued by self-doubt. And most importantly for us at pjur: loving yourself more can also improve your sex life. Because if you love yourself, you have more self-confidence, and feel… -
How to Get Yourself in the Mood for Great Sex in 2025
We all know how it goes with new year’s resolutions: When January 1 rolls around, we always vow to exercise more, eat better, or make more time for ourselves. But how many of these resolutions do we actually stick to? Most of the promises we make to ourselves are broken within the first few weeks… -
The LGBTQIA+ activists you need to know about – and why
Over the years, the LGBTQIA+ movement has produced some incredible activists who campaign tirelessly for equality, acceptance and the rights of their community. The courage, commitment and unwavering dedication of these activists has made a significant contribution to improving the lives of LGBTQIA+ people around the world. In this post, we introduce you to some… -
Sex in the shower – A how-to guide
Sex in the shower can be a scintillating sensory experience that takes pleasure and intimacy to new heights. While a steamy encounter under hot running water might look effortless in the movies, the practicalities can prove slippery in real life. But fear not – with our simple tips and tricks, you’ll both be able to… -
Fetish – The attraction of leather, feet and objects
We can all feel attracted to certain characteristics of another person: a body type, face, legs or a particular appearance and look. But what if you’re only sexually attracted to a particular body part? Or it’s objects that attract you, rather than anything to do with the body? We’re heading into the world of fetishes.… -
Voyeurism – The thrill of watching others
Voyeurism is the desire to observe, or the sexual gratification of watching naked people or people engaging in sexual acts. Voyeurs become sexually aroused watching other people, and get a particular thrill out of it. Read on to find out what voyeurism means and why so many people are attracted to watching nakedness or sexual…