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Polyamory: How Loving More Than One Person Works In Practice
Most of us automatically think of a conventional two-person relationship when we imagine a romantic relationship. But love can be so varied and diverse, that it’s time for us to gradually relax our ideas of conventional types of relationships and be more open to all types (and colours) of love. Many of you are sure... -
Cuckolding, Candaulism & Wife-sharing: What You Need to Know!
Love and sexuality mean something different to each of us and can be just as varied and diverse. On top of gender and sexual orientation, sex practices are also part of many people’s sex life. We try to give all sexualities, gender identities, and also sex practices the space they need. Which is why today... -
Gender Fluid Sex Positions with No Assumptions – Find Out What Turns You On
Gender fluidity in sex can be amazingly liberating. Without the old-fashioned “giver or taker” assumptions. We are all free to do what we want. At first, that can seem a little alarming – because a framework is also often helpful and offers security. But being fluid also opens up new vistas. Who is the “giver”?... -
It’s just fantasy: Why It’s Normal to Have Sexual Fantasies, Not a Taboo
We love with both head and heart. That’s a pretty good way of describing what we’re going to talk about in this post. Because let’s be honest, who has not had at least one erotic fantasy – whether with a stranger or in an unusual place? Did you feel ashamed of it, or did you... -
Breast Orgasm or Nipple Orgasm – Don’t Neglect Your Breasts
Most of us know all about vaginal, clitoral or anal orgasms, and hopefully have already experienced them. But the breast orgasm (breast-gasm) or even nipple orgasm is still relatively unknown. At least, we certainly didn’t know much about it! By touching and stimulating the nipples you can climax – yes, you heard that right. And... -
Do you have a higher libido than your partner? Don’t worry! Why you should listen to your own libido
In our last post, we looked at the topic “Beliefs.” Unfortunately these outdated opinions still dominate any discussions about sex, desire, and orgasms. And that includes the idea that men have a higher sex drive, and therefore an elevated libido. On the other side of the coin, women generally don’t feel able to express their... -
Masturbation: What are your beliefs?
We all believe something, and often just don’t notice how often these beliefs repeatedly inveigle themselves into our lives and dictate what we do or say. Our cherished beliefs unconsciously determine many of our everyday decisions, even going as far as to affect our desire to experiment in bed! Don’t believe us? Unfortunately, it’s true;... -
Masturbation: Do You Do It Regularly, and Do You Talk About It?
Any men reading this probably have a very clear answer, but what about the women? Do you masturbate regularly and, if yes, what do you think about it? Unfortunately, many women will not have given this a moment’s thought. Yet, as we discovered with our pjur&yourself survey, men and women who masturbate actually have a... -
pjur Lube Guide: Everything You Need to Know About Using Personal Lubes
Are you new to using personal lubes but want to finally try it out? Or are you a lube expert but want to finally stop having to think about your natural lubrication and want to enjoy your sex life? We have compiled all the important information and FAQs here for you so that you can... -
Mindful Sex: Arouse Your Intimacy and Lust
Mindfulness, meditation and looking “inwards” seem to already be all anyone’s talking about in 2022. Because the more time you spend in front of the TV, on your smartphone or at work, the less inner peace you cultivate. This can also have a negative impact on lust and intimacy. To counteract this, mindful sex can... -
Certified Personal Lubricants: Why Quality Is the Right Choice for Your Intimate Area
Personal lubricants are used on the most intimate parts of your body, and even enter it. This is why it is particularly important that personal lubricants are compatible and tested appropriately. However, with such a wide range of lubricants on the market, choosing the right product can be difficult. At pjur, we want you to... -
What Intimacy Can Mean For You and Your Relationship
What does “being intimate with each other” mean to you? Does it only mean sex or does it also mean being really close to your partner? We know that intimacy means much more than just sex and think it is necessary to explain more in detail what intimacy is and why both physical as well...