More Than Escort. Jay Stark on Intimacy, Trust and First Times
When people hear the word escort, they often have a certain image in mind. For some, it is a form of luxury; for others, it is a taboo subject. Hardly any area of sexuality is as strongly associated with prejudice as sex work, and yet very few people know how diverse it actually is. And […]
Hedonic Parties, BDSM and the Search for New Experiences – In Conversation with Robert* from Elysium Playsuite
Sexuality is constantly evolving. While some people discover their preferences early on, others uncover new sides of themselves over time. At the same time, openness towards topics that were once only visible within small communities continues to grow. These include BDSM, fetish culture and so-called Hedonic Parties. People encountering these terms for the first time […]
Making money on OnlyFans: Honest experiences, everyday life, and what really lies behind it
Sexuality today exists on many levels. It is both offline and online, visible and hidden. And yet there are lived realities that are rarely spoken about openly. One of them is working as a content creator in the adult industry. This is not only about content, but also about self-determination, visibility, and dealing with societal […]
From a Medical Device to a Symbol of Self-Determination: The History of the Vibrator
What does a product say about our society? About taboos, pleasure, and self-determination? Hardly any object makes this development as visible as the vibrator. What today stands for sexual wellness, empowerment, and an open approach to intimacy once began as a medical device. Its history tells of social norms, cultural ruptures, and how our view […]
Inside the World of a Dominatrix: Interview with Calea Toxic
Between Power, Trust, and Humanity The image of a dominatrix is still shaped by clichés in many minds. Whips, latex, leather and a woman giving orders. These are the usual associations. But what truly lies behind this profession that is so often misunderstood?Calea Toxic, a professional dominatrix and former police officer, opens the door to […]
On All Fours: Pup Uzuma on Pupplay, Community and Freedom in the Headspace
On all fours, sometimes playful, sometimes curious, and sometimes serious: Pupplay is a form of expression that may seem unusual at first glance, yet for many it is a natural part of queer life. Between closeness, freedom, ritual, and a strong sense of community unfolds a scene that is as diverse as it is fascinating. […]
What Kinky Parties Are Really About: Nico, the Kinky Guide on Safe Spaces, Scene Culture, and the Kinky Guide
Who Is Nico, the Kinky Guide? Nico is the founder of the Kinky Guide and the Kinky Guide Awards, two initiatives aimed at making the kinky community more visible, safer, and more diverse. As an active member of the scene, Nico not only knows the events but also understands the needs, questions, and challenges faced […]
Fetish – The attraction of leather, feet and objects
We can all feel attracted to certain characteristics of another person: a body type, face, legs or a particular appearance and look. But what if you’re only sexually attracted to a particular body part? Or it’s objects that attract you, rather than anything to do with the body? We’re heading into the world of fetishes. […]
Voyeurism – The thrill of watching others
Voyeurism is the desire to observe, or the sexual gratification of watching naked people or people engaging in sexual acts. Voyeurs become sexually aroused watching other people, and get a particular thrill out of it. Read on to find out what voyeurism means and why so many people are attracted to watching nakedness or sexual […]
50 Shades of Grey in the Bedroom – How BDSM Works in Real Life
Have you read or watched Fifty Shades of Grey and wondered what BDSM is all about? Then you’re in the right place! We don’t think BDSM should be a taboo, so here we explain what those letters mean and what types of play are out there. BDSM: four letters, six words BDSM stands for Bondage […]